Are you feeding a hungry heart? Find out if that urge to eat is from
hunger or emotions. How to beat emotional eating with 6 simple steps.
Diets
and obsessive food behaviors have become such a way of life that we've
forgotten how to listen to our internal hunger cues.
The body has a mechanism that indicates when it's hungry; however,
unless you are the exception to the rule, hunger is not always the
driving force behind your eating behavior. In fact, chances are you
frequently eat for any number of reasons, besides hunger.
Food is
often used to soothe emotions. The occasional snack to boost your
spirits is not a concern; however, if you're turning to food for
comfort on a regular basis, it may be a problem. Emotional eating
habits may lead to obesity, compulsive eating, malnutrition, or other
health problems. The trick is learning to differentiate between eating
because of hunger and eating because of mood.
Becoming aware of
your emotional triggers is the first and most important step. If you
can identify the reasons you overeat, then you can work to manage your
behavior. Try the following steps to identify and overcome your
emotional eating habits:
Step 1: Track your eating behavior for one week.
Log everything you eat in a notebook, computer, palm pilot, day
planner, or just scraps of paper. It doesn't matter where you write it,
just make sure you include everything (small snacks and beverages add
up). Keep track of time, food, quantity, degree of hunger, mood (e.g.,
bored, stressed, nervous, frustrated, angry, sad, happy, lonely). You
won't believe what you can learn from keeping track of your eating
habits.
Step 2: Review the week.
Did you eat when you weren't hungry on a regular basis (once a day or
more)? If not, congratulations! You are one of the few who eat solely
based on physical need. If you did, proceed with the rest of the steps
to get back in touch with your body and your physical hunger needs.
Step 3: Listen to your body.
Start each day with the goal of heeding your internal cues. Be aware of
what your body is telling you. Each time you are about to put something
in your mouth ask yourself if you're really hungry. If your body is
telling you yes, by all means eat and enjoy (you may need to reacquaint
yourself with the feeling of true physical hunger if it's been a
while). If your body is telling you no, try to figure out what's
stimulating your desire to eat and work toward finding a more effective
solution. For example, if you are tempted to eat the leftover pizza in
the refrigerator because you're bored, think about a better solution,
such as going for a walk or calling a friend. At first it may be
difficult to separate real hunger from emotional eating, but keep
practicing and you'll get the hang of it. Continue to keep your
journal, so you can track your improvement.
Step 4: Eat consciously.
When you're eating, take the time to enjoy your food. Try to not
combine eating with other things, such as working or watching TV.
Multitasking may be efficient, but it takes away from the satisfaction
of eating and may lead to overeating. If you're sitting in front of the
TV, you may eat a whole bag of chips without even remembering it.
Step 5: Get to the bottom of your emotional triggers.
Now that you're aware of your emotional eating triggers, confront them
before they can sabotage your conscious eating success. Learn to manage
your reaction to triggers that may lead to overeating. Develop
solutions, aside from eating, to deal with your emotions. If you're
likely to munch on a box of cookies when you're stressed, think ahead
and develop an alternate plan of action. For example, decide to
practice relaxation techniques or get some exercise. You'll feel better
about yourself, and you'll be working toward relieving some of that
stress.
Step 6: Be patient.
Eating habits are not easily changed. It will take time to become
accustomed to your new method of conscious eating. If you've made it
this far, you've overcome the biggest barrier, which is realizing that
you're an emotional eater. Now you can take gradual steps toward eating
to satisfy physical, not emotional, hunger.
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