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What if I told you it didn't have to be so hard to lose weight
permanently? What if you could lose that weight -- well, automatically?
Skeptical? Why wouldn't you be?
After all, claims of instant, effortless weight loss have proliferated for decades without delivering.
However,
successful dieters share a common "secret" -- they aren't constantly
thinking about eating and exercise. They've figured out ways to make
their behaviors and choices second nature.
It's based on the
concept of "automaticity" -- the ways we perform our daily behaviors
without having to think about them. Activities like setting your alarm
clock at night, putting on shoes before you leave the house and
remembering how to drive to the office do not require much thought. The
idea is to apply the same principle to your diet.
TOO MUCH EFFORT
Most
failed dieters complain that maintaining a diet is just too much work.
"Attempting to consciously perform a novel task or alter a behavior
requires effort and utilization of almost the entire control network
portion of the brain, whereas, when you've learned a behavior and it's
automatic, you can reduce the amount of brainpower by as much as 85
percent," says Walter Schneider, Ph.D., a professor and researcher in
psychology at the University of Pittsburgh.
In terms of
dieting, the amount of information and control required can be
extremely difficult for the average person to sustain. This becomes
especially important when our control systems are weakened -- like when
we are sleep-deprived or stressed. It's an opening for our previous,
more comfortable, negative eating habits to resurface. "When there are
distractions or concerns competing for your attention, the mental
workload can be overwhelming. This could be a reason why we fall off of
our diets," offers Schneider.
REPEAT, REPEAT, REPEAT
Making your diet automatic doesn't happen
overnight. "It takes a couple hundred executions of a new behavior to
make it automatic," says Schneider. For instance, if you want to start
automatically ordering a vegetable egg-white omelet for breakfast at
the diner instead of buttered toast, greasy eggs and sausage, you can't
just do it a few mornings and expect it to stick. Plus, there are many
different areas of your eating and exercise behavior that need
adjustment -- you need to inspect each part of your day and come up
with compromises that work, and then repeat them often.
According
to Amy A. Gorin, Ph.D., a professor of psychiatry and human behavior at
Brown University Medical School, one of the primary predictors of
weight gain or maintenance is dietary consistency. "Those who maintain
the same diet regimen across the week and year are more likely to
maintain their weight loss over the following year than those who diet
more strictly on weekdays and/or during non-holiday periods," says
Gorin. One possible explanation is that dietary consistency is a
characteristic that develops naturally over time in people who maintain
their weight loss. So giving yourself a break once in a while in the
beginning stages of learning to automate your diet is probably not a
good idea.
EASIER OVER TIME
Automated behavior is
essential for permanent weight control, but a study of the National
Weight Control Registry (individuals who have lost at least 30 pounds
and kept it off for five years or more) reported in "Obesity Research"
found that after losing weight and maintaining it for more than a few
years, weight maintenance gets easier.
AVOID THE FLASHING NEON SIGN
"Going
on a diet" traditionally involves food deprivation. As soon as we
decide to diet, we come up with lists of foods we can't eat -- we might
as well put up a neon sign flashing, "EAT -- EAT -- EAT." "Any time you
try telling yourself not to do something -- that's exactly what you'll
find yourself doing," explains Dan Wegner, Ph.D., professor of
psychology at Harvard University.
If we try not to think about
something, just remembering not to think about it brings it to the
front of our consciousness -- exactly the opposite of what we want. In
fact, Wegner did an experiment in which he told participants NOT to
think about white bears, and then talked with them for the next 30
minutes. The result: All they talked about were white bears -- they
mentioned them 30 times on average.
"People think they
should have 'willpower' to go against their nature, but the human mind
is just not constructed that way," says Wegner. Actually, there's a
good reason why we can't just shut out the desire for food: We need it
for survival. It's just that our bodies have a hard time distinguishing
healthy from unhealthy foods.
DON'T BE A DIET HERO
In
the beginning, set yourself up to succeed by arranging your environment
so you can execute your new behaviors. "You need to rearrange your
world so it can operate as if it's on autopilot," suggests Wegner.
The
key is to arrange your environment to maximize your chances of losing
and maintaining weight and minimize your chances of slipping up. Avoid
cues that tempt you. For instance, if you can't resist the fries when
you take your kids to McDonald's or Burger King, take them to Subway
instead. Sounds simple, but most people won't make a change like this
unless they think about it first.
CREATE YOUR OWN MENTAL BUTLER
Let
your subconscious mind do the work for you. Set up detailed
associations, reminders and triggers to help develop your new
behaviors. For example, when your alarm goes off, associate that with
putting on your shoes and going out for a walk. Or when you see 12:30
p.m. on the clock at work, automatically order a very specific, healthy
lunch from an already designated "healthy" restaurant. These detailed
associations are called implementation intentions.
REPLACE IT
Schneider
suggests replacing a few of your old eating behaviors with new, more
healthful ones. It's much easier to replace an old behavior than to rid
yourself of a negative behavior on its own.
Take a peek at
your eating behaviors and zero in on foods you're willing to substitute
with "Calorie Bargains" -- foods low in calories that still taste
great. For instance, if you typically eat high-calorie cereal every
morning, shop around for a few that are lower in calories but still
make you happy -- then stock your pantry with only these lower-calorie
cereals.
In order to alleviate stressing all day about weight
loss, devise a plan for dealing with your "Eating Alarm Times"-- the
one or two hours when you consume the majority of your high-calorie and
high-fat foods. (Midmorning munchies? Prime-time TV snacking?
Late-night noshing?) Again, look for Calorie Bargains to substitute at
those times when you tend to overeat.
INEVITABLE TEMPTATIONS
Rehearse
scenarios in your mind for difficult eating situations, such as
unconscious eating, traveling, special occasions (weddings, family
dinners), dining out, nighttime snacking, etc. Develop a rough sketch
of how you'd like to change your behavior in that scenario -- including
the thoughts, emotions and actions you want in your "ideal" version.
Mentally prepare for when you slip up, since slip-ups are inevitable.
CHARLES
STUART PLATKIN JD MPH is a nutrition and public health advocate, author
of the best seller Breaking the Pattern (Plume, 2005), Breaking the FAT
Pattern (Plume, 2006) and Lighten Up (Penguin USA/Razorbill, 2006) and
founder of Integrated Wellness Solutions. Copyright 2006 by Charles
Stuart Platkin. Sign up for the free The Diet Detective newsletter at www.dietdetective.com.
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